The first man, who discovered knowingly the female G-Spot, was Dr. Graefenberg in 1950. He was a German gynecologist who was living in the United States of America.
After he told his colleagues of his discovery, they’ve been laughing at him. You have to understand that at that time, the common believe of men was, to bring a woman to ecstasy is to be present or buy her a new pair of shoes. Last one is not to disregard till today.
The Female G-Spot leads men to confusion, because of different anatomy of women; the female G-Spot is to be found at different locations.
Either it is close to the entrance of the vagina or even till five centimeters deep in the vagina, with other words out of reach for some men.
So the man has to go and look for it every time new, except he knows the woman already.
The female G-Spot is activated after sexual stimulation, before that the female G-Spot is in sleeping Beauty mode, and would not cause any excitement for the women, no matter how much you rub or hammer against it.
So here the rule is also, first a lot of dopamine production (for the woman), with nice seducing words and soft and later maybe harder actions, and then it will work.
Woman love Casanovas
Women might say that they do not like Casanovas as a man, but the opposite is the truth.
Example from a field Test. A Party. A Guy comes in with a woman next to him, the other women at the party don’t look at the guy, and they screen and look at the woman next to him and judge the guy according to the appearance and impression of his escort.
Why do women do that? Because if a man is already tested by another proper appearing woman and trained for relationship, it’s easier than training a newcomer by yourself, without knowing the outcome and with bad luck the woman wasted her time since the guy cannot be trained according to her needs.
You also would prefer to take a trained successful racing horse, instead of trying to train an donkey to become a racing horse. Even if you manage it, you will be old and tired, since this donkey is quite stubborn sometimes. Same with the men.
That’s why they say in Germany: “On old horses you learn riding.”
But what does that help or tell the men? If you are a man who wanted be be more attractive to other women on a party, don’t go as single! Surround yourself with a young beautiful lady, which could be in relationship with you, like that the attention of other women is guaranteed. But don’t make the mistake and look like you want to escape from your Escort. Make it descent, exchange Name cards as you are doing business but with a slight more sympathy. Women are more sensitive like men and they understand an option for them and will take it at the time they want to accept it. Keep your Escort always close to you, let her talk with others like you have no worries and always take care of her well, because be reminded you are watched every second.
The Real action comes later for you if you meet one of the other lady’s later for a coffee or tea or others. Find reasons you can always fall back to if it does not work out on the meetings later, so that you always look like Mr. Nice Guy!
How many Girlfriends did you have before me?
Memories are a good thing, if you don’t have to deal with the past. At some point of a so called relationship the above Headline will be thrown at the unprepared innocent man by his Girlfriend.
Firstly, why do women ask this question always? The reason is quite simple, they are still unsure about you, what kind of guy you are and if it’s the real you they see. Secondly they want to get a better judgement of you and of course how serious this relationship can be and how many efforts she should invest.
Women may ask at that point; “Why do men never ask this question first?”
Here the answer is also simple. No, the man is definitely interested how many Boyfriends you had before him, but mainly he cares for the moment, since this question is brought at a quite early stage of the relationship, while the man is still enjoying the benefits and needs longer as the woman to realize this is a relationship, so he will not ask yet.
But if a woman asks this question, the man will think to give an accurate number as reply and if holding hands or kissing counts at least half a point or touching and having sexual intercourse is definitely a full point, but how about a blowjob? Since this takes obviously some time, the woman will, before any answer from the man verbally has been given, since five seconds have been past already, look shocked at him and says: “So many?!”
The man tried to give a quick answer since he is afraid of losing the benefits of this “relationship”, so he will say a number over ten or more, because he thinks of the number he gives to his “buddy’s”. A huge Mistake. The next mistake follows right away, he asks her the same question back in the insane hope that now she is in trouble and he is out of it, or at least they are even. So wrong.
A woman will tell you a number under or till three maximum depending on her age five. You lost. How come that there are so many men having so much sexual practice but the women you met never has, that is not possible or? The reason is that women do not count one nightstands, blowjobs or any other fumble with a man or other woman. They only count “relationships”.
So how can a man this evil game?
Depending on your age as well, but do as the women do. Just say five or if you are just 18 or twenty say 2 or 3. Calculate a number that leaves since your fourteens or fifteens birthday has around every 3 to 5 years one Girlfriend, because that makes you look good, and a steady guy who doesn’t play around. Remember women want their boyfriend not like the Mr. Wrongs before, cause women and men are the same in one general thinking; before you find Mr. Right, you can have a lot of fun with Mr. Wrong. Same counts for men versus versa.
But if they have found Mr. or Mrs. Right, or believe they did at least, they would never admit to the other that they also had fun with the previous one or ones that are a healthy self-preserving respect to the partner, anything else would lead to a disaster.